Can I win her back?
My girlfriend dumped me about 4 months ago, we were together for 2 yrs. Recently she got in contact with me and asked me to go out for a coffee with her, I said Yes. We meet up this Monday. Went for coffee and couple drinks, we did not talk much about relationship just pretty much about life and some other stuff. We spent like 4 hours together and she was nice to me and receptive I would say we had good time. At the end I walked with her to train station where we spent another half an hour talking, she missed 2 trains. We talked about relationship and I told her how much she means to me and etc.. We hug each other for a some time, she got close to me, it felt really nice. At the end I kind of asked her so what's going on, she said that she likes this and maybe would want to be together. But couple minutes later she said, I"m not sure if I can commit and that I'm all over the map not sure about my life, and that she does not want to put my hopes up at this moment and that she could wake up next morning thinking totally different, so confusing. So the third train came by, and she had to run, at that moment she gave me a quick kiss on my neck and a hug. So we did not resolve anything, and I did not want to push her as well, there is no point unless she really wants to get back together. Also, I asked her if I could take the train and walk her back to her apartment as for safety reasons, she declined that offer. Once I got home I called her to make sure she got home safely. She was nice on the phone and etc, but it was a short conversation. So we did not talk since then and it's Thursday night. I was thinking of calling her tonight, but I talked to few friends and they think that I should not, it will only show desperation and might just set her back. They think I should wait for her to call, but I think if I do not call her she might think I do not care or whatever. someone suggest that I should send her an e-mail sometime on Sunday night and just say that I had good time w/her, it was good seeing her and maybe propose and night out. But I have no clue what she wants or stands w/me right now, and I do not want to ask her too many questions as well. Maybe her not contacting me at all, means that she does not want to do anything w/me. Or maybe she is playing a game, or just deciding on things.
What do you think I should? Is there a chance to win her and how? I need a good strategy. thank you