Should I Plan My Future Around Him?
I'm 18 and my boyfriend lives in Ohio, I live in Colorado. Our plan from
the beginging was me move to Ohio the 27th of October, but now that it's
getting closer, I don't want to do it at all. I'm not ready to move. I'm
only 18, I know nothing about the real world. His parents bought us a house and I feel obligated to move there and live in it with my boyfriend and pay all the bills for it. I told my boyfriend how I felt and he isn't liking my idea at all. I think that he should move here and we can live here for awhile and then move to Ohio when were ready. Oh did I mention that I just got offered an assistant manager job and I would be getting paid way more than I am right now. So that's another hard part. I don't want to loose him and I'm afraid that I'm heading down that path... I have to think about my future too because what if he isn't in it later? I can't just plan my whole future around him and if we break up then I'll be screwed. I don't know... I need advice. please help me - thanks.