Should I Continue my Relationship with my Granddaughter?
I have a grandchild that I met for the first time seven years ago. She is a beautiful young lady but I'm not sure she wants a relationship with my
husband and I. She appears not to want one with her father. I have asked her to come and spend time with me, I have taken her out to movies, shopping, and lunch. I have acknowledged her birthdays and Christmas. So far, I do not receive any thanks for any of this. I have decided that she really doesn't want a relationship with us either. She doesn't want to come visit or spend time with us unless we are going to be spending money on her. I am thinking that from here on out, I will send only a card for her birthday and I'm still not sure about Christmas. Does this sound reasonable? Thanks for your advice.