Why Won't My Girlfriend See Me?
Hi there, my problem is not large at all, but I have logically considered
it and tried to help it in many ways, alas no effect. My long-term (few years) girlfriend (what you would consider a wife) won't
see me anymore. We talk online all the time, as we always have, but a month ago she came out with something, which she thought I'd hate and would ruin our relationship, but it wasn't a big deal at all and she'd just built it up in her head. Regardless of the magnitude, the discussion was heated in an... unrequired magnitude (admittedly both our faults). We got over it easily, but about a happy month later she said
'I love you, but I just want to be alone. You don't understand it'
Yeah, I didn't. I'd think that IF you love someone, you'd want to be with
them! Anyway, I agreed to trying a break but very quickly we released that there was no reason NOT to be together if we were in love (what a surprise). Since this though, and here is the actual "problem," we haven't met up for approximately a month and a bit. Still talk online all the time, though she often doesn't inform me of what is going on with her. It is suspicious and I can imagine as a reader of this you might think 'maybe she is slowly phasing you out because she doesn't want to be with you' or something worse, but I have complete trust that this is not the case. I often try to arrange ways to meet up, but there is always a reason she can't go. As you can see it is a small problem, very small, and I appreciate how lucky I am to not have something worse. Someone wrote that an essential part of love is communication and being
contactable. That is fading. I don't know why. I just want to be with her
and remind her how much we enjoy each others' company. If someone read this, thank you for your time.