Should We Get Married?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Recently he decided he wanted to go into the military... in order for me to be able to be with him we have to get married. I have never pictured myself getting married and to be honest I have never wanted to get married. I am only 18 and he is only 17, to me this is a big step and I'm not sure if he is truly understanding the whole situation. He has told me he understands what getting married means and he wants to. I told him I'm not sure and he said if I dont want him to he won't go into the military... I dont want to take something like that away from him and I dont want to lose him. But this whole marriage thing scares me! What if we get married and then it doesnt work out? I don't know what to do.