Trying to Understand
I and some of my other female friends have a hard time dealing with men's needs to visit strip clubs. Every guy seems to say he is not the strip-club type, his friends dragged him, he doesn't want to say no and risk ridicule, and so on. We understand that they may only go once in a while, men are hormone-driven, peer pressure, yada yada. But in our mid and late twenties now, we wish they would grow up already. The worst part is, boyfriends often make us feel guilty for acting insecure about it. Guys get all irritated when a hot fireman shows up to save a cat out of a tree, so why can't they understand how intimidating sexy naked women performing private dances (and who knows what else) are to a girlfriend?
- Trying To Understand