Bestfriends?
Mark and Sophie,
Here is the situation .....
My first week of grade 10 (15 years old) I met a girl and the teacher paired us up as "class buddies" for the year. Someone to call for homework or questions about the class or someone to pick up your homework for you when you missed class.
Surprisingly we hit it off wonderfully, even though we were in two different crowds and two polar opposites as far as personalities go. We started off talking about once a week catching up on work and homework questions. Things rapidly moved to us talking for hours daily on the phone, (rarely in company of friends or at school). We would go through bouts of not speaking whenever one of us was in a realtionship and as soon as one of us fell out of a realtionship, shortly thereafter the other did too. We always ended up falling back into the same routine of hours on the phone everynight before bed.
Here is 9 years later (24 now) and we are still doing all the same things. We tell eachother often that we love each other and she constantly tells me how I am the only person in her life that has always been there for her.
Here's the problem - I broke up with my gf about 6 months ago and now she is on the verge of breaking up with her bf, I suspect only cause we are talking too much. I have been in love with her for 9 years and would go to the moon and back for her, and she knows it.
So am I just a transition friend from bf to bf for her or is there something there that I should act on given the next opportunity?
Please advise
Lost without her