Why Am I Only Getting the First Date?
I'm going to try and state the facts as honestly as possible. I am a 21 year old male. I am very aware that I am well above average looking. I'm 6'2 180lbs, basically tall dark and handsome. There's no way to say that without sounding conceited, which I am not, I am just aware of my looks. I consider myself intelligent, I follow politics, I pay attention to current events, I am well read. I'm into all the arts, etc.
And I can't find success with women to save my life. I'm very, very shy, so meeting women and asking them out is hard enough as it is. But I am also very picky. It is so hard to find a smart, pretty woman who is into the arts. Two out of three is actually pretty rare in my experience. In recent weeks I have tried my luck meeting women on the Internet. After scanning dozens of profiles I found exactly one that interested me. I sent her a message and we started chatting back and forth. She and I had absolutely everything in common, and I mean everything. We had several long conversation on line before we agreed to meet for coffee. Out coffee date when very well from what I can tell, two people talking and laughing for nearly two hours, with a couple of cups of cold Mocha sitting next to us at the end of it. She agreed to see me again at the end of the date.
And that was the last time I heard from her. I waited three days before making contact again. I then called her and got her voice mail and just left a quick message to call me back. There was no response after a day, so I sent and email telling her I had had a good time, etc, I kept it light and casual. It's been several days and she has not responded. I don't want to make contact again for fear of looking desperate. But I don't understand why she behaved so positively towards me when we ended out coffee date, and then promptly cut off all contact. This is not the first time this has happened to me, and I am at a loss as to what I am doing wrong.
Please help.