How Do I Get Him Back?
I have been having a serious relationship for 1 year and 4 months---but apparently for the last 4 months we have been having problems (that is what he has told my friends). I had been moody and all, but the thing is, he never told me! He bottled it all... until he couldn't take it any more :-( Plus, to make things worse, one of his close friends started coming between us and that caused more problems for the two of us because his so called friend added things up to make things worse. It has been two months since we have broken up and I really still want things to work. I bumped into him at a match recently and the saddest part was that he was drinking and drinking, he looked wasted. He was always around me at the match, we hardly spoke, but he was always there. Then I bumped into him at a concert. This time he was in his senses, but he was still around - jumping up and down like a little kid, but still around. This isn't the first time we have broken up. Two years ago we also broke up because we have unsorted issues within us, but after six months he wanted to give it another try, and we did! As a couple we were great. We're still talking and have silly conversations, but that is it, there has been no progress. Please tell me what to do to get him back. I believe that I should be partly to blame for the breakup, but don't we all deserve 2nd chances? When he asked for a 2nd chance, I gave him one, but I honestly don't think he wants to give me one. I am confused. And I am scared to approach him because of his new found friend. Please tell me what to do. How do I make things fall back into place again/ How do I get him back? Please reply a.s.a.p. because I think I am going insane. Take care and God bless you all