Do I Have a Reason to be Jealous?
I am living with my boyfriend of 2 years. We have one child between us and then I have 3 from a previous marriage. My boyfriend and I have have become pretty good friends with our neighbors who are a little younger with no children. It is pretty much a hang out on the weekend and drink kind of thing, which I don't always enjoy, but my boyfriend and her husband are really good friends. Well, my problem is that even though the girl is very nice to me, she seems much closer to my boyfriend. She is always asking him about work and seems to focus her attention on him when we all hang out. Also, she is very endowed in the chest and always wears VERY low cut shirts. Usually when we all go somewhere several guys comment on her chest. Anyway. I know my boyfriend loves me very much, but this situation really bothers me. I just recently mentioned it to him and he says that he does not notice her showing him more attention, so I just dropped the subject. Should I just feel more secure with myself and my relationship and ignore the situation?