My girlfriend's in Canada and confused - what can I do?
Hello, I have a girl friend who went to Canada to study there. before she left, we made promises that we would never cheat on each other and we'll wait for each other because I'd be following her next year. Well on her second week there in Canada, when I think things would be ok. but since she's new in Canada, she doesn't have friends and misses me so much she's getting lonely... one day, there was this "cute, tall, buff" rugby guy (she told me in yahoo messenger) who offered her friendship. at first I was jealous, but then when I think it for the 2nd time... I think its fair... and so I said why not... and so they became friends... and in line with his invitation, I wanted them both to hang out. For me, I thought hang out means, hang out during lunch then do nothing.but it seems that in Canada it means date. (I'm not sure but it turned out to be). So with out knowing that, and with her parents' permission, I said again why not... then I made her promise that she'll turn him off right away. Then she said "Yes, don't be sad, I'll love you always remember that". Then next day came, and so they had their hang out... well things went wrong because this rugby guy, reminds her of me. so she's liking this guy. until now, she's being true and honest with me, but I'm getting hurt and jealous. now she's confused and all. I want to know what should I do because we're just counting months till we meet again. What can advice can you give me?