I Think I'm Falling In Love With an Old Flame - What Should I Do?
Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We kind of started fast in the relationship by moving in together after a month and I was only 18 at the time. Right now, I am 23 and have 4 kids. My oldest is 3 years old and my youngest are twin girls of 8 months. My problem is that, recently I have met an old flame again, he is really successful in live and very lovable. We kind of started flirting again. I think I am starting to fall in love with him again but I don't know what to do. Don't get me wrong. Me and my boyfriend are not like the perfect couple. since I had my second child, we keep arguing and we don't get along. He is immature and does not want to grow up. He likes to drink and not take care of the kids. He has a lot of things that I don't even like. For a couple years now, I've stayed with him just for my kids because there are no more sparks between me and him. Even in bed I feel like I am obligated to have sex with him. What am I supposed to do? Does it mean our relationship is over already? Because I have tried in the past so many times to fix it but now he even yells at me in front of my kids. I just don't love him anymore!