Should I Give Him More Time?
I have been on 6 dates with a guy who started off really keen for first 3 dates and then backed off a bit. Says we mustn't get carried away and that it's early days. (He also had a very brief arranged marriage about 5 years ago). He is in between jobs and is currently living with his parents and is a bit down because of this and finding it hard to be motivated to job hunt and move out into his own house which is being rented out. He has lots of friends and has an active social life. He has poured his heart out to me on the phone regarding his family and career dilemma but since then seems a bit distant and has mostly been asking about me and avoids talking about himself that much. He has said he likes me and would like to keep dating me but that it is too early to tell where it will go. All we have done physically is kiss. I only see him once a week and feel it is not growing at the rate I would like and not sure whether to tell him this or wait and see if we bond more naturally. Also not sure if his hesitance is because of his feeling down due to the work/family problems and if I should just give him more time?