Not Learning Any Lessons
Over the last few months, I have had two propositions from two different men, both of whom I have previously known, one for 5 years, the other for 15 years, and both asking the same thing: 'let's just be casual'. Never, before have I had this presented to me. Anyway, one evening, the 5-year old misconstrued something that I said during an evening with him when I told he made me 'feel good' and since then, I have not heard from him. The 15-year old is more verbal; let's you know what is going on in his head, which is a change of scene for me, and said that he wanted to take things 'slow' but basically said 'let's have an affair'. At first I didn't want this arrangement because of what happened with the 5-year old, and told him so. However, after a long discussion, I conceded. Technically, we have only had one encounter and similar to the 5-year old, I have not heard from him since. Could you please help me to tap into the thought-processes of these different, yet similar guys?
PS: I would really only want to pursue something with the 15-year old.
Not Learning Any Lessons