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Fooling Around with my Ex

So there's this guy who has a girlfriend and I'm his ex, but we keep talking and he says he loves me but yet he's still with her because he's confused about what he wants. He wants me to go see him but I don't really have time. I still like him but I have been fooling around with other guys even though he doesn't know and he thinks I'm waiting for him. I still like him and I would like to be with him but I know he still likes his girlfriend. What should I do?

Candi




Sophie's advice

What should you do? How about run as fast as you can and while you're at it, run to the closet therapist. Why would you be interested in someone who is just using you and abusing his girlfriend by going behind her back? Some guy. You like him but you have no time and you are fooling around with others and he doesn't know it. Sounds like a lot of fun. Seriously, you need to get to the bottom of why you would want to live a life like that. He is using you because he can. You are using him because you can. Have some more respect for yourself, and for others (his girlfriend has enough problems having him as a "boyfriend"). Find someone who will treat you right and then treat him right.

Mark's advice

Good Golly, Miss Molly
Man this is easy.
Easy as Monday morning.
Just look him square in the face and ask him.
Stop right there.
I got to know right now.
Before we go any further, do you love me?
Will you love me forever?
Will you need me?
Will you never leave me?
What's it going to be, boy?
Yes or No?
(This all sounds strangely familiar)

Don't give him any time to think about it.
Just say, is it her or me?
And if he can't answer you, loose him.
Otherwise he'll always 2-time on you.
He just wants both of you. You should
find out which of you he wants most.
Then find someone who finds just you enough.

There now, wasn't that easy.




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